You don't mention his parents? Do they know about this? Are you friends with them? Could you talk with them about them being round his house so that can put your mind at rest a bit? I would rather have them round my house than possibly unsupervised at his maybe? As I said to my daughter, she is a child playing an adults game but what are you going to gain by going mad about it? Ostracizing your daughter, making her sneak around behind your back anyway and exposing her to more danger. I think you are doing amazingly - if only we could laugh at this over a glass of wine! - and I totally understand your feelings towards her initially but you've taken a huge step in speaking to her again and she must be feeling incredibly relieved that this is all out in the open now. With regards to the comments of her being a child yadda yadda yadda, yes, she is, of course, a child, but children will be children and at that age they think they know it all don't they? I certainly did at 13! I also have a 17 year old son, would he be described as "a child"? In the eyes of the law he certainly is but somehow that's acceptable. Obviously I initially went mad and can 100% identify with ALL of your emotions!! But like I say, I took stock and realized that I cannot lock her up 24 hours a day and that at least she was being honest and open - even though it is early days and she insists that they will not be having sex, I however am a realist and realize that that may not always be the case! But I will cross that bridge when I have to! But the week after he paid for them to go to the cinema together, and the week after that he met him - albeit briefly! Even though hes my ex and I could strangle him sometimes, I was very proud of him for that as it must have been hard for him.īut I took stock and was grateful that, after the initial lying, she was now being honest with me. And he was devastated to hear this about his little girl. It was her father I was more worried about and I truly felt for him when I rang and tell him. He was no man, he was a gangly 14 year old kid with braces. Meeting him made me feel very strangely better. I found out on a Tuesday and on the Friday she was bringing him round to meet me. Obviously I was not happy about it to say the least but what can you do? Lock her away? Ground her indefinitely? Shes still got to go to school right?! She lied about who she was out with for 2 weeks (not where she was, just who she was with) and I KNEW something was amiss. I too have a 13 yo daughter - shes not 14 until next august! - and she has recently got her first boyfriend. at (800) TIP-OCSD.Not particularly helpful I feel and I hope you never find yourself in the OPs unenviable position. If you have information related to the suspect, you're asked to call the Orange County Sheriff's Dept. So given that he was able to communicate with this child, we are fearful there might be other victims," said Doan.Īuthorities would not name the site, concerned that it could identify the victim. "Our big concern is the fact that he was out on a social website. Hours beforehand, investigators seized potential evidence, including Robertson's computer. No one answered at Robertson's apartment Wednesday. At least one neighbor who did not want to be identified said Robertson was tutoring her daughter in math. Robertson told investigators he works as a computer programmer. "Anybody who would do this kind of thing to a child is a dangerous individual," said Doan. Orange County Sheriff's deputies were waiting at a greenbelt area in Ladera Ranch. Robertson was arrested Tuesday night after the girl's mother intercepted his text message as he tried to arrange a fourth rendezvous with the girl. Each time after, he would drop her off at her home in Ladera Ranch. Investigators suspect Robertson had sex with the girl two more times at his apartment in Newport Beach up until November 1. He took her back to the Back Bay area of Newport Beach, there's trails and greenbelt area back there where apparently the crime occurred," said Orange County Sheriff's Lt. "The suspect actually picked the victim up as she was getting out of her middle school. Online, he allegedly chatted with a girl under the age of 13.
He faces charges of child molestation and kidnapping. Sam Robertson is suspected of posing as a 24-year-old online.
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